Do simple tasks like brushing teeth or doing homework often feel like a battle?
It’s not just the task—it’s how your child’s growing brain processes it. Grounded in child psychology, jar routines address the cause of resistance—making everyday tasks easier and happier for both of you.
What Causes Resistance?
Here are three common reasons why children resist daily tasks—and how Jar Routines can help:
Problem 1: No Sense of Control
Kids often resist tasks when they feel forced. A lack of control creates stress and leads to power struggles.
What to do: Empower
Jar Routines empower your child by giving them an active role in the process.
Adding tokens to the jar lets them see the direct impact of their actions, fostering a sense of control and ownership.
Problem 2: No Reason to Do It
Kids often struggle to engage with tasks when they don’t understand why they matter. Without a clear purpose, tasks can feel pointless and unmotivating.
What to do: Give a Reason
Jar Routines provide your child with both a reason and a tangible goal—filling the jar.
Seeing progress gives their efforts meaning and keeps them motivated. Over time, this process helps build lasting habits and a sense of accomplishment.
Problem 2: No Predictability
When a task catches child unprepared or off guard, they’re more likely to resist. Without a routine, even simple tasks can feel sudden and overwhelming.
What to do: Create a Routine
Jar Routines create structure by making tasks predictable and consistent.
As routines become a regular part of your child’s day, they know what to expect and feel more at ease, reducing resistance over time. Children thrive on predictability.
Jar Routines aren’t just a quick fix—they create lasting change by addressing core challenges.
They make life more manageable and enjoyable for your family. Your child feels less frustrated, you feel more at ease, and instead of constant conflict, you can focus on enjoying meaningful moments together.
Start making parenting easier and more joyful today.
Jar Routines aren’t just a quick fix—they create lasting change by addressing core challenges.
They make life more manageable and enjoyable for your family. Your child feels less frustrated, you feel more at ease, and instead of constant conflict, you can focus on enjoying meaningful moments together.
Start making parenting easier and more joyful today.
Jar Routines aren’t just a quick fix—they create lasting change by addressing core challenges.
They make life more manageable and enjoyable for your family. Your child feels less frustrated, you feel more at ease, and instead of constant conflict, you can focus on enjoying meaningful moments together.
Start making parenting easier and more joyful today.
Start making parenting easier and more joyful today.
How to Use the Jar
Jar Routines are designed to seamlessly fit into your daily life. Here’s how to get started:
Step 1: Set Up the Jar
Place the jar where it’s easy to see, like on the fridge or a central spot in your home. Set a goal—like brushing teeth or completing homework—and explain it to your child in a fun and encouraging way. (Don’t worry, we give you tips!)
Step 2: Add Tokens Together
Each time your child makes an effort, add a token to the jar together. Celebrate their progress with praise and encouragement—it’s all about making them feel proud!
Step 3: Celebrate Progress
When the jar is full, it’s time to celebrate! Choose something special to do together, like a family game night or a fun outing, or simply extra playtime. If needed, start again to reinforce those positive habits.
What’s Included
To start a routine, you’ll need the Jar. Each jar is thoughtfully designed to address a specific challenge—like toothbrushing, potty training, schoolwork, helping around the house, being kind, and more.
You’ll receive:
- A solid, themed jar: A visual reminder to encourage consistent use, tailored to support your child’s specific goal.
- Colorful tokens: Fun shapes and themes designed to make participation exciting and directly connected to your child’s task.
- Back magnets (optional): Easily attach the jar to your fridge or any magnetic surface, keeping it visible and easy to use.
No complicated setup—just open the box and start using it!
Is the Jar Worth It?
The jar isn’t just a tool—it’s a way to create lasting change by making your life easier and your family happier. Imagine brushing teeth without resistance or approaching homework without conflict!
It also saves you time, money, and energy in the long run. With fewer daily struggles, you’ll have more time for the things you enjoy. You’ll avoid costly alternatives like constantly buying small rewards or relying on ineffective bribery. And with fewer conflicts, you’ll have more energy to spend on quality moments with your child.
The jar is also an investment in your child’s development. It helps them manage emotions and build positive behavior. By introducing routines, it encourages them to stay organized, focused, and calm—setting them up for success now and in the future.
